Fort Collins cop's book helps in child sex abuse cases
Fort Collins police recently interviewed a
On they way out, the cops gave her and her mother a copy of their colleague Sgt. Jon Holsten's book, "The Swimsuit Lesson," in which he explains to children that they should never be touched on any part of their body covered by a swimsuit.
On the way home, her mother noticed the girl in the back seat with her eyes closed, starting to cry. "What's wrong, honey?" the mother asked.
"I need to tell you everything," she said.
They returned to the police station, where she confided to the police exactly what had happened.
Why the change? She said, "Well, the little girl in the book didn't get in trouble by telling, so I figured I wouldn't either."
Holsten, when told that story, knew that the long hours and hard work and travel he'd done for his book was worth it.
Holsten's book, which he self-published four years ago, has sold more than 10,000 copies across the country and in Canada.
On his own — without an agent, a publisher or a publicist — he's managed to put the instructional, beautifully illustrated children's book into 600 elementary schools throughout New York City, and into school districts in
Holsten got the idea for the book while he was a detective. "About 85 percent of my caseload was child sex crimes," he said. "I was blindsided by the number of cases dropped on my desk. Parents have no clue how often these cases happen. And many don't know how to approach it with their kids. I found a simple way to address a complicated issue."
And it's not just for kids. A 90-year-old woman who saw Holsten on ABC's "
Holsten, a 39-year-old father of six kids between the ages of 2 and 14, who works full-time on the midnight shift, has struggled with his project. He had to take out a second mortgage on his house to cover the $25,000 bill for printing and other expenses.
"I've been amazed. Most speakers average sales of their book to about 10 percent of their audiences," Holsten said. "I've been averaging 85 percent. But it's been very difficult to find an agent or a publicist. I don't know why."
Mike McPhee: 303-954-1409 or mmcphee@denverpost.com
Teaching kids about sex abuse
For more information about the $15.99 book, visit theswimsuitlesson.com.
Read more: http://www.denverpost.com/news/ci_14074963#ixzz0awN9YzFC
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Rabbi Nuchem Rosenberg
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Brooklyn, New York
Rabbi Nuchem Rosenberg is a dedicated community activist and advocate on safeguarding Jewish children from sexual abuse in Orthodox Jewish communities and schools.
Check out Rabbi Nuchem Rosenberg's website in Isreal: www.nuchem-rosenberg.com
Rabbi Rosenberg protests in front of the Supreme Court and Brooklyn District Attorney’s office located at 350 Jay St. Brooklyn N.Y.
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What a fantastic story. Swimsuits!
Here are some tips.
Determine Your Size
To determine your swimsuit size, you'll need to measure yourself (or let me do it) using a tape measure.
Measuring Tips
* Take your measurements while wearing only your underwear
* Stand in front of a mirror
* While measuring, make sure that the tape measure is straight, not twisted
* To get an accurate measurement, the tape measure should be snug, but not pinching or tight
Step-by-Step Measuring Guide
* Step one: measure your waist
o Find your natural waistline by bending to one side. While standing straight, measure around your waistline.
* Step two: measure your bust
o Measure around the fullest part of your bust. If this measurement is between numbers, it should be rounded, either up or down, to nearest whole number.
* Step three: measure your torso
o Run the tape measure around your body from your shoulder where your bra strap rests over the fullest part of your bust, down through the center of your crotch, and back up to the starting point at the shoulder
Instead of the regular boy bathing suits that don't tell the whole entire picture, I prefer the Speedo Solid Male Brief and recommend it for all young boys.
Go here to see an example.
http://www.lane4swim.com/speedsolmals.html
An old priest was getting sick and tired of all the people in his parish who kept confessing adultery. One Sunday in the pulpit he said, "If I hear one more person confess to adultery, I'll quit!"
Everyone liked him, so the parishioners came up with a code word. Someone who had committed adultery would say they had "fallen". This seemed to satisfy the old priest and things went well, until the priest died at a ripe old age. About a week later, the new priest visited the Mayor of the town and seemed very concerned.
The priest said, "You have to do something about the sidewalks in town. When people come into the confessional, they keep talking about having fallen." The Mayor started to laugh, realizing that no one had told the new priest about the code word. The priest shook an accusing finger at the mayor and said, "I don't know what you're laughing about. Your wife fell three times this week."
http://whyy.org/cms/news/regional-news/delaware/2009/12/28/meetings-set-on-lewes-child-sex-abuse-case/26497
Shlomo mandel has an established track record of committing child abuse and acting haughty as if we need to bow down to him, and he is a rasha gamur, no doubt about it. He has no conscience, proof is he enables nussbaum by supplying him with a job at yob, and the fact that he tried to besmirch parents who dared squeal on nussbaum's molest with little boys.
Please also examine very closely yakov mandel's role in covering for nussbaum. yakov himself is a pedophile and monster and was the menahel for the yeshiva ketana before the power struggle with his brother.
All in all a grave problematic disease of controlling others became the norm with each monster doing their part to tear the hearts out from kids who just happened to be at the wrong place at the wrong time. If there is a god in heaven let him obliterate the sickos responsible for these crimes!
The Bishop of Galway, Dr. Martin Drennan, is standing firm against efforts to have him resign in the wake of the Dublin child abuse scandal, thereby creating a further crisis in the Irish church. Four bishops who served in the Dublin archdiocese during the period of the sex abuse have already stepped down, but Drennan, who is the fifth named in the recent Murphy report, has been adamant he will not step aside.
There was further confirmation of his stance over the weekend. He “does not intend to resign,” according to his diocesan communications manager Fr. Seán McHugh.
Drennan is “strong in his belief that he did nothing wrong,” McHugh was quoted in The Irish Times as saying. "Dr. Drennan’s case was different to that of the other four bishops mentioned in the report, in that he wasn’t asked to appear before Judge Murphy’s commission,” McHugh said.
http://www.gastongazette.com/news/abuse-41930-sex-child.html
North Carolina sounds like a good place to open another yob branch. We can call it Yeshiva of Brooklyn of Gaston County. Heh.. What do you people think?
If Rabbi Moshe Feinstein couldn't get me to appear in front of him - calling me a Misarev Ledin - surely he is not worthy to pasken Co-ed seating is muttar.
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http://jta.org/news/article/2009/12/28/1009928/israeli-women-fight-relegation-to-back-of-bus
(JTA) -- Three years ago, a 57-year-old grandmother got on a bus in Israel departing Rechovot for Givat Shmuel and sat in a vacant seat in the front.
Shortly after taking her seat, the woman was approached by a fervently Orthodox man who demanded she move to the back of the bus with the rest of the women.
Unbeknownst to the woman, who asked JTA to be identified only as H., she had boarded one of the so-called mehadrin (super kosher) bus lines, on which the predominantly ultra-Orthodox, or haredi, ridership imposes sex-segregated seating. The man told H. that segregated seating had been sanctioned by the rabbis and by Egged, the state-owned bus company that operates the line.
H., who is herself religious, refused, prompting a barrage of verbal abuse from the man.
"With the exception of being physically harmed, I was hurt in every manner," H. told JTA. "He called me every name imaginable. I was shocked, and I didn't know how to respond to him."
The man harassed her for the entire ride. Nobody, including the driver, came to her aid.
H. is among a group of women who filed affidavits as part of a petition to Israel’s Supreme Court to ban gender-based segregation on Israeli public buses. The petition was filed by the Israel Religious Action Center, which is associated with the Reform movement.
Before issuing any ruling, the court referred the matter to Israel’s Transportation Ministry. In January, more than three years since the IRAC petition was filed, Israeli Transportation Minister Yisrael Katz is expected to issue the government's official position.
Some haredi passengers defend sex segregation, saying it upholds Jewish rules concerning sexual modesty. On mehadrin lines, women sit in the back and men in the front in order to avoid physical contact. Drivers do not enforce this code, but the IRAC considers such practices on public buses to be a fundamental violation of women's rights. It also says the practice has no basis in Jewish law, or halachah.
The IRAC isn’t alone. As esteemed a rabbinical authority as the late Rabbi Moshe Feinstein, one of the preeminent Orthodox sages of the 20th century, permitted co-ed seating on public transportation.
Shechter is a turd. He thinks he's better than Rav Moshe. This man should be thrown out of town on his face!
A chutzpah, he and his Chaim Berlin cult following, for giving him recognition, and that's not even touching the surface with the whole Hersh disaster or his lunatic rantings aganst Slifkin.
December 28, 2009
Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Word - Rabbi Barry Gelman
By Rabbi Barry Gelman
http://www.jewishjournal.com/morethodoxy/item/sorry_seems_to_be_the_hardest_word_-_rabbi_barry_gelman_20091228/
The last two weeks have brought reports of very troubling allegations against Rabbi Leib Tropper, founder of Eternal Jewish Family (EJF), an organization that has sought to influence conversion standards. http://jta.org/news/article/2009/12/17/1009796/eternal-jewish-family-head-resigns.
I am not the only one outraged by the recent events related to Rabbi Tropper, who has resigned from his position at EJF. While what he allegedly did (he has not denied it yet) is despicable, the EJF train wreck will actually get worse if all we continue to hear from the EJF leadership is silence.
I have heard number of Rabbis call for the disbanding of the EJF, while there are others who are hopeful that the EJF can recreate itself. One thing is for sure, EJF will never recreate itself if there is no apology.
The current EJF rabbinic leadership must do three things:
1. Repudiate the actions of Rabbi Tropper,
2. Apologize for the chillul hashem created by the EJF due to Tropper’s actions, and
3. Come clean about the various claims of financial “funny business” at the organization.
In the words of Marshal Goldsmith, a well-known leadership consultant, apologizing is “the most magical, healing, restorative gesture human beings can make.” He also explains that refusing to say “I am sorry” to someone you may have wronged is the equivalent of saying “I don’t care about you.”
Goldsmith makes the point that when one apologizes, one is in effect saying, “I can’t change the past. All I can say is I’m sorry for what I did wrong. I’m sorry it hurt you. There is no excuse for it and I will try to do better in the future.”
Whether or not the rabbinic leadership of EJF knew about Tropper’s misdeeds is beside the point. (I do find it interesting that so many find it impossible to believe that Tropper duped the rabbinic leadership of the EJF; as if to say that Halachik and Talmudic expertise makes one an expert in human psychology and immune to be tricked by a guy like Tropper.) What is important is that the EJF leadership must take responsibility for what Tropper did if they ever wish to move past this episode...
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Errors Cost Sholom Mordechai A Fair Trial
Chanukah has come and gone. For some of us, the days flew by in a whirlwind of celebration and activity. But not for everyone. For Sholom Mordechai Rubashkin, waiting patiently in an Iowa jail while a court of appeals weighs a judge’s decision not to grant him bail, time seemed to be crawling. After prolonged negotiations with various prison officials, Aleph Institute, a Florida-based organization that offers services to Jewish prison inmates, won permission for Sholom Mordechai to light Chanukah licht • Full Story
http://www.chabad.info/index.php?url=article_en&id=16860
http://www.wdel.com/story.php?id=726963276336
Group helps child sex abuse victims, parents
By Frank Gerace
In the wake of the Earl Bradley case, a child abuse victims' support group has tips for finding out if your son or daughter's been molested.
Valerie Marek with Surviviors Of Abuse in Recovery says the main thing you should do is be sure your kids know they can feel comfortable telling you if they've been victimized.Audio Here
Marek says a good way to get your kids to speak more freely is to talk to them while they're playing, since youngsters communicate through play.
Marek says SOAR is starting a free support group for abuse victims' parents in Sussex County and the surrounding area.
To learn more about the group, you can call SOAR's office in Lewes at 302-645-4903.
Maybe if these troubled kids with bobby pins in their hair had more derech eretz they'd be totally frum and I wouldn't have had to resort to extreme measures. Like the times I pulled their underwear off and smacked their bottoms in front of all the yingerlach at yob.
What a rush of adrenaline I get every time I think about it - to have had the zechus to be mechanech them!
Man in court on 168 abuse charges
A 66-year-old man has appeared at Londonderry Magistrates Court charged with 168 counts of child sex abuse and physical assault.
The man, who cannot be named for legal reasons, was extradited from the Republic of Ireland on Tuesday.
The offences are alleged to have occurred in Derry from 1978 to 1981. The defendant is originally from the city, but now lives in Donegal.
He was remanded in custody to reappear in court in January.
A Delaware pediatrician may have molested as many as 100 patients, including some who appear to be no more than 6 months old, and police said the doctor used video cameras to record some of the brutal attacks in exam rooms.
Dr. Earl B. Bradley, 56, was being held on $2.9 million bond, said Sgt. Walter Newton, a Delaware State Police spokesman.
Bradley, of Lewes, faces 29 charges, including rape. Police believe there could be more victims.
"Forensic evaluation of seized video files and software has to date discovered 15 more unidentified victims," according to a detective's sworn statement obtained by The News Journal of Wilmington.
While court officials released some records to The Associated Press, the detective's affidavit was not one of them.
An explicit 18-page document released to AP did, however, detail the alleged attacks in exam rooms, which had Disney themes such as Pinocchio, at BayBees Pediatrics, Bradley's solo practice.
A detective who viewed the assaults described in court papers the 6-foot, 225-pound Bradley as having a "violently enraged expression on his face" in one video involving a 2-year-old.
Rabbi Kahane's relative suspected of torching mosque
Judea and Samaria Police arrest member of former Kach chairman's family suspicion of setting fire to Yasuf house of prayer about three weeks ago. Palestinian official expresses satisfaction with arrest, says hopes Israel 'will judge him severely'
By JILLIAN DUCHNOWSKI - jduchnowski@nwherald.com
Woman arrested on 13-year-old sex abuse warrant
WOODSTOCK - A 33-year-old Bourbonnais woman will likely ring in the New Year in jail after she was arrested on a 13-year-old warrant alleging sex abuse.
Sheriff’s deputies arrested Michelle Abbeduto after finding the old, unserved warrant last week during a routine records review, Lt. Andy Zinke said.
Abbeduto, then 19, allegedly had inappropriate sexual contact at least 10 times with a 14-year-old girl staying at the Forest Academy for Young Women in Wonder Lake, Zinke said. Zinke was unsure how Abbeduto knew the alleged victim, if at all.
Abbeduto was charged with aggravated criminal sexual abuse, unlawful restraint and sexual exploitation of a child for incidents that allegedly happened in February 1996. If convicted of the most serious charge, she could be sentenced to a maximum of between three and seven years in prison.
In 1996, the sheriff’s department did not have the formal apprehension unit it has now, and police agencies did not typically pursue arrests outside the jurisdiction, Zinke said. Now, the apprehension unit serves new warrants stemming from local cases, prioritizing them based on the severity of the charges, and pursues some of the 5,000 open warrants on file as time allows.
Abbeduto’s case apparently sat idle as the warrant issued in April 1996 went unserved, but sheriff’s police recently located her using computer records searches. They arrested her Wednesday without incident, Zinke said.
“The only comment she made when she was taken into custody was ‘What took so long?’” Zinke said.
In her request for a public defender, Abbeduto stated she was living in Bourbonnais with her mother. She remained in McHenry County jail this morning unable to post 10 percent of her $150,000 bail.
She is scheduled to be arraigned Jan. 8.
What Ohel, Agudah and the rest of the shysters don't want you to know.
Child Abuse in Orthodox Brooklyn: Chipping Away at a Wall of Silence
by Hella Winston
Special to the Jewish Week
(Posted Tuesday, Dec. 29, 5:45 p.m.) In an alleged financial fraud that has ensnared Orthodox Jewish investors from New York to Florida to London, a Lakewood, N.J., businessman is accused of bilking them out of more than $200 million through phony real estate deals, according to complaints made in multiple lawsuits across the country. In court papers obtained by The Jewish Week, plaintiffs claim that real estate investor Eliyahu Weinstein, 35, "orchestrated a fraudulent scheme" in which he made false representations - supported by counterfeit and false documents - about where and how their money would be invested, and misappropriated the funds for his own use. - Read Story -
http://www.thejewishweek.com/viewArticle/c37_a17565/News/National.html
A jury acquitted five of six Orthodox Jews charged in a wild fracas - but found one guilty Wednesday of a simple misdemeanor. All were facing as much as 15 years each on gang assault charges when their trial began five weeks ago.
The brouhaha erupted inside a yeshiva when students from two different sects began battling over a bed in the dorm room. The sects have had a long-running argument over who they believe is the true messiah.
Brooklyn jurors found one member of the local Shomrim guard group guilty of a single misdemeanor.
"It was all a big waste of time," said Nechemia Slatter, one of the so-called "Shomrim six" acquitted in the Dec. 29, 2007 dustup.
"It's the district attorney's money," said lawyer Joyce David, whose client, Chaim Hershkop, was also acquitted. "A lot of resources for nothing."
Many of the charges, including felony gang assault, were dismissed by Justice Albert Tomei before jurors began deliberating. Jurors took five hours to find all but Godi Hershkop not guilty.
The case, which began when two groups in an Eastern Parkway yeshiva began fighting, revealed divides in the community over whether the late Rabbi Menachem Schneerson is the messiah.
It also put Shomrim, criticized by some as too aggressive, on trial. All six vowed to stay with the group.
Hershkop, 37, faces as much as a year in prison but defense lawyer Israel Fried, noting that his client will probably lose school bus driver job from the conviction, said he'll probably not get any jail.
"Community service?" Fried asked, "He's already doing community service: he's Shomrim."
Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/ny_crime/2009/12/10/2009-12-10_yeshiva_fight_ends_in_1_minor_conviction.html#ixzz0bK6tweQu
http://www.jewishtimes.com/index.php/jewishtimes/news_list/jt/sexual_molestation/
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